New Year's Evolution™

Choosing a Theme for 2006 that
Excites and Ignites You
You know you're not a candidate for making a New Year's resolution if you frequently promise yourself that you’ll do something and then you don't do it. Join the crowd! There are plenty of better ways to reach your goals without the guilt and dread that often accompany New Year's resolutions. The two I enjoy the most are selecting a theme for the year and making daily decisions. This month’s article deals with the first of these two strategies.
I’ve been choosing New Years’ themes for many years, and I’ve found them incredibly helpful to me in evolving as a human. And I think you will too.
Choose a Theme for 2006 that Excites and Ignites You
Theme parks have a theme, special parties have themes, cruises use themes. Why? Because they’re exciting and they act as a roadmap for what’s ahead. A theme helps you know what to expect – and whether you’re going to like it. So why not have a theme for how you want your life to be in 2006?
Think of something that has been bugging you or exciting you and choose a theme that captures the essence of what you want more of (or less of). No need to hurry the process. Let your thoughts steep. Settle in with a cup of tea, take a hot bath, or get out in nature and let the theme come to you over the next couple of days.
If nothing comes to you, use the suggestions below to spark your thinking.
Theme #1 - What bugs you that you want less of?
Think of something that’s been bugging you and then turn it around to something fun and pleasurable. The turnaround becomes the theme for the year. Here are a few ideas to get you started. (read across)
What Bugs You. . . becomes >> |
Theme for the Year |
| No Time for Fun | A Year of Fun and Fantasy |
| Couch Potato Habits | Get Up and Get Out |
| Many Unfinished Projects | Finish What You Start |
| Day-to-day Drudgery | Living My Heart's Desire |
| No Support System | Creative Connections |
| Financial Concerns | Healthy, Wealthy, and Wise |
| Clutter/Confusion | Decide, Do, Delegate, Dump |
Theme #2 - What excites and ignites you?
If you prefer to create a theme around something you’re really excited about achieving, look at these examples to jumpstart your thinking:
What Excites & Ignites You >> |
Theme for the Year |
| A New Job | The World is My Oyster and I'm Going Fishing |
| A New Relationship | Perfect Partner |
| More Balance, Less Stress | Harmony and Balance |
| Spiritual Growth | A Year of Gratitude |
Theme #3 – What do you want for your family?
Consider creating a family theme. Selecting a family theme can become a fun annual ritual. Here are a few examples:
* Together We're Better
* Life in Balance
* Frugal Can Be Fun
* We Make Our Own Fun
* Healthy Family, Happy Family
Then What?
After you select a theme, make a list of things that will help you live the life your theme represents. For example, if you're desiring to connect and meet new people, make a list of 10 ways to do that: join a bird watching group, attend a study group, tell your friends and colleagues that you'd like to meet new people, start a hobby, etc.
If your list includes some items that will also make you more physically active and healthy, good for you – but that’s not the goal of this exercise. The goal is to think of a theme that excites and ignites you!
We’ll talk more about all of these themes in a free teleclass I’m offering Tuesday, January 31 from 8 – 9 pm Eastern time. When you register you’ll receive a Theme Planning Worksheet and a few things to think about before the teleclass – to prime the pump.
In the teleclass we’ll explore three kinds of themes: Less of/More of, Health Themes, and Family Themes. By the end of the call, you’ll have an exciting theme for 2006 and you'll have a list of several steps that will help you get there. Hearing other participants talk about their themes may help you tweak your theme to more closely describe what you truly want in 2006.
So forget New Year’s resolutions. They don’t work for 99.999 percent of the population. Instead, have a New Year’s Evolution powered by your 2006 theme.
Reserve a spot for yourself right away. Register here.
Ask Cheryl
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The biggest problem my husband and I have is coming up with different things to eat. Generally our menu consists of the same thing, just a different day each week. We don’t take the time to check out new recipes, so I have enjoyed the recipes you have suggested in your newsletter. One thing we do is make "planned overs." We make more than we can eat at one setting so we have planned overs for a different night that week or that we can freeze for something quick down the road. | |
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I love that you have "planned overs." Sounds so much better than left overs. I think a lot of people get tired of the same meals over and over. Maybe you'll get some ideas from this recipe web site... |
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Books I Love
Give Me a Moment and I'll Change Your Life - Alan Lakein
This powerful little book can help you stop whining about having a boring life. It shows you how to make more of all your moments. I Love it.
I have a habit of writing the copyright date, my name, and the date I read a book on the inside cover. So a few months ago when I was scanning my bookshelves for the perfect book to read, my eyes stopped on Give Me a Moment and I’ll Change Your Life. Because he’s the famous time management guru I assumed it was about how to multi-task and cram more productivity into each moment. But thankfully I was wrong. He shows us a hundred ways to enrich each moment with pleasure and satisfaction.
I enjoyed the book so much, I wondered why I didn't catch the beauty of it when I started and stopped reading it in 2001. Guess I wasn't as much into pleasure then. I'm glad I gave it a second chance.
If you’ve been feeling blue or numb or just below the line, pick up a copy and learn how to see pleasure that is waiting to be recognized and experienced. This book can change your life, truly. It's changed mine. Once you start paying attention, you'll be amazed how many moments have been flying by without notice. What a waste of pleasure potential.
Alan Lakein doesn’t just say “be mindful and conscious.” He shows you how – in at least 100 interesting ways. I loved this book. Click on the book image to go check it out and search the contents. This book is out of print, so when you find a copy either at the Amazon link here or at your local library, snap it up!
Blue Bird of Happiness
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Do you want to be happier and make more of your moments? Here are a few provocative questions from Alan Lakein's book (reviewed above) to get you thinking :
-- Do you enjoy playing with moments?
In fact, if you’re looking for a New Year’s theme, how about selecting A Year of Pleasurable Moments? You can use the Alan Lakein's book – take one chapter a month – to practice the recommendations for adding more pleasure to your daily moments.
The first day of every month, you can read a chapter before going to bed. Each chapter is just 6-8 pages. Then your focus that month can be to incorporate several of his suggestions.
Want to know more about how to add pleasurable moments and create that as a New Year's Theme? Register for the f-ree New Year's Evolution teleclass here. |
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